Someone recently asked me, "Why do you relay?" I am on a relay team in the virtual world of Second Life. I think this video, which a fellow RFLinSL colleague shared with me says it quite succintly.
There is no surer mark of a well-bred man or woman than proper and dignified conduct in public. The truly polite are always quiet, unobtrusive, considerate of others, and careful to avoid all manifestations of superiority or elegance. Twentieth Century Culture and Deportment, 1899